How to use AskMe4 safely and responsibly

Anonymous apps are incredibly fun. They allow for honesty, humor, and connection in ways that public social media can't. However, anonymity also comes with responsibility. At AskMe4, your safety is our absolute priority.

We’ve built powerful tools to keep the platform safe, but user behavior plays a huge role too. Here is your comprehensive guide to staying safe, sane, and happy while using anonymous Q&A.

1. The "Golden Rule" of Anonymity

Just because they don't know it's you doesn't mean there isn't a real person on the other end. Before you hit send, ask yourself: "Would I say this to their face?" If the answer is no, delete it.

Cyberbullying has real-world consequences. We have a zero-tolerance policy for hate speech, threats, and harassment. Our AI filters catch most of it, but being a decent human being is the first line of defense.

2. Protect Your Personal Information (PII)

NEVER share the following, even in "private" chats:

Home Address or specific location data.
Phone Numbers (yours or anyone else's).
School Name or workplace details.
Passwords or financial information.

Remember: Once it's on the internet, you lose control of it. Screenshots live forever.

3. Use the Block & Report Tools

If you receive a message that makes you uncomfortable, do not engage. Trolls feed on attention. Instead:

Tap the "..." menu on the message card.
Select "Report" and choose the reason (Harassment, Spam, etc.). This alerts our moderation team immediately.
Select "Block Sender". This prevents that specific device from ever sending you a message again.

4. Managing Your Mental Health

Social media can be draining. If you find yourself feeling anxious or upset by the questions you're receiving, take a break. You can:

Turn off notifications in your settings.
Delete your link from your Instagram/Snapchat bio for a few days.
Talk to a friend or trusted adult if something specific is bothering you.

5. Spotting "Bait" Questions

Sometimes, people ask provocative questions just to get a reaction they can screenshot and share. Be wary of questions like:

"Who do you hate the most?"
"Tell us a secret about [Friend's Name]."
"Rate [Person] on a scale of 1-10."

The best response to these is no response. Don't let others drag you into drama.